Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Cat Cave...na na na na na na na...Cat Cave

I call it the cat cave. Or should it be the cat canyon?

A little background may be in order here. George, our lovely geriatric cat, decided that he really prefers sleeping in an enclosed space during the day. It started out by him “asking” to get under the covers early in the morning. He would root around and paw at the covers until I lifted them up and he could snuggle under. But, being a cat, it wasn’t enough to be under the covers. For some reason he won’t tolerate having the covers touch him. So, when I am in bed alone with him, I put a pillow across from me and drape the covers over me and the pillow, essentially making a “cave.”

I guess he has been doing that for about three or four years. Some mornings he doesn’t want to get up when I do, so I started replacing me with another pillow and leaving him to the bed for as long as he likes. On some days, that turns out to be the whole day, with breaks from napping for a quick bite to eat, potty breaks, and drinks of water.

During the winter, when the wood stove is constantly burning, he has a commercially made kitty tent that sits in a rocker that he inhabits. It really concentrates the heat of the stove and couples that with his own kitty furnace output for one very cozy spot. But as the seasons change, and the stove sessions become more infrequent, he moves back to the bed.

Knowing that Albert, my husband, isn’t crazy about having the cat sleep in the bed throughout the day (there are those occasional stray bits of kitty litter that end up between the sheets), I started making a cave out of two pillows on top of the bed that are covered with the ubiquitous fleece blanket. This seems to be an agreeable compromise and all three of us are happy…George, because he gets his cave and his way, Albert because he gets the cat out of the bed and gets his way, and me, because both my bed mates are happy.

About a week ago I got up and George was already downstairs doing his morning business. I made the bed, but didn’t make the cave. There was plenty of sunshine pouring through the windows elsewhere in the house and I figured he could make do with that. There are plenty of other cozy spots to take a nap. He has a kitty cliff hanger device in my office window that I figured (apparently wrongly) would do just fine.

About an hour later, George disappeared and then reappeared, meowing very loudly (he has a funny meow, but more on that in another missive). He wouldn’t stop and when I walked toward him, he started for the stairs. He stayed about three steps ahead of me, meowing, and led me up the stairs and to the bed. Up he jumped, where he stood in the exact spot where his cave should be. He continued meowing as I placed the pillows. He lay down between them, and dare I say it, smiled as I pulled the blanket over his head. Needless to say, I haven’t missed making his cave once since then, and he now goes through the same procedure, waiting as I neaten the covers, and then standing or sitting where his cave should be until I finish constructing it.

Now even a cat can get too warm, and the sun shines into our bedroom rather strongly in the late afternoon. So for the past couple of weeks, his cat cave becomes a cat canyon in the afternoon. At some point (I haven’t seen it happen) he moves from under the covers to lie between the pillows in the lovely cozy valley they create. That’s how I find him in the afternoon, all warm and snuggly in his fleecy canyon with the sun baking his old bones.

I’ve lived with this cat for 18-plus years, and he can still surprise me with his intelligence, persistence, and charm. Those who claim that animals don’t think, who go so far as to say they have no soul, are sad and lonely folks. All they really need is a day with a cat like George to change their wrong thinking. His companionship and constancy, and ability to grow and change, have been a blessing without measure.

The View, Part 2


One is never at a loss for something to look at around here. This photo is a couple of weeks old (we have just finished the cherry bloom) but is just too gorgeous and spectacular not to share. Am I gloating just a little?...you betcha. Most days Mother Nature reminds me that I am one very fortunate girl.

The peak is known as Haystack. Not too obvious a name from this vantage, but well-named when you are looking at her from the valley. The blossoms are cherry, and the bird to the right of the mountain? I think it is a crow or raven, but let's fantasize and call it a bald eagle, if you'd like. There are plenty around these parts at this time of year.

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Oh, Happy Day!

Is anyone out there as excited, giddy and emotional about today as I am?!

What an amazing day.

Amen.

The Angel

An angel crossed my path today. I got too smart when I was driving down our icy road today and got stuck in the deep snow on the shoulder. While I was struggling to get the vehicle out, an older man, a stranger to me, noticed my plight and stopped to help. After pushing and pulling and a trip to a neighbor's for a shovel and a bit of added gravel for good measure, we got the old van out. I barely got his name as he turned to walk back to his truck and then I was on my way.

We are blessed to live in such a place and among such generous neighbors. I hope I'll have the opportunity to pass it on.

Growing Up

In my "about me" statement, I noted that I am "still waiting to feel like a grown-up." As of today, the waiting is over.

Today I watched a 47 year old man take the reins as the "leader of the free world." As a 47 year old myself, I think the willingness to take on that level of responsibility qualifies as being a grown-up.

What qualifies a person as being considered responsible? It is a willingness to put yourself second to the needs of others. It is doing things you don't feel like doing simply because they need to get done. It is being someone that others can rely on, being there when you say you will be. It is the doing of things for their own sake, and not for any ultimate benefit you may receive. It is the "putting away of childish things."

I was mulling this over while I was raking up sheep poop this afternoon. I was thinking about the gradual transformation some of us go through as we change from carefree 20-somethings to responsible 40-somethings. You don't even know it is happening until it's already happened. One day you realize that you haven't lounged in bed for years, that you read books by the pages rather than the chapters, that playing with your friends has taken a back seat to taking a family member to a doctor's appointment. Some of it you miss. Some of it you wonder why you ever wasted so much time. Moments of freedom are precious and few.

The funny thing is...I like this other way of being. I like being needed, of needing to take care of others. I like helping where and when I can. Yes, I even like raking sheep poop (most days).

But I must be honest...I don't fit the reponsibility bill on the "benefit" side. There are lots of benefits, realized and hidden, to being responsible. The most important? The wonderful feeling you get for showing up. It's schmaltzy, I know, but the biggest gift you can give yourself is giving of yourself.

Perhaps I've been confused about being grown-up. Seems I've been a grown-up all along.

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

The Warming

I am one of those crazy individuals who hopes to live in a Currier and Ives Christmas card from Thanksgiving to Easter.

I love the snow. I love the squeak of it underfoot, the shush of it as it falls, the silence it creates as it absorbs other ambient sounds, the amazing whiteness of it, and the sheer wonder of the perfect individual flakes. I love the way snow makes everything look better...compost piles turn into mini moguls, fence posts into mushrooms, trees into icing confections. All harsh edges are erased and flaws obscured.
Here in Northwest Montana we have enjoyed a long spell of particularly snowy weather. A series of muscular storms covered our little farm with a think blanket of fluffy snow, deep enough to make doing chores a chore, but not so deep that we were housebound. With nearly three feet on the ground and even deeper drifts, I have been in heaven.

And yet my white heaven has turned to hell in just 24 short hours with the arrival of a warming trend that has swirled its way out of Oregon and Washington and turned my winter wonderland into an ugly, slushy mess. Shallow pools of melted snow sit over frozen ground and the sheep's winter quarters have turned into a soupy, poopy mess. Poor babies, they can't seem to find a dry spot unless they lay in their spent hay.

One bright spot in the morass is that it will help with our nearly impassable road (the UPS man got stuck yesterday and uttered a VERY bad word which I heard from nearly 1/4 mile away) and allow us to pick up a load of hay from a local farmer. That should make the sheeps happy.

But as an eternal optomist, I know it will snow again, and the ugliness exposed by the warmth will once again be shrouded in soft, rounded whiteness and I will sigh, happy.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Progressives & Faith

If you are a person of faith, and a progressive, then I urge you to visit the Sojourner's website. Started by Jim Wallis, it is an inspiring collection of faith-based opinion on every imaginable issue from politics to poverty to justice to creation, with a refreshing and positive twist.

I went to the site to help cleanse my brain after seeing a report on our local news about a Kalispell Baptist church pastor who is calling the US an abomination now that Obama has been elected. He claims we are on a path of wickedness and that people of faith should not commune with the wicked (see liberals). I pray God helps this poor delusional and hate-filled man. I cannot begin to understand how he can interpret the bible in such a way. I am sad for him.

So, off the the Sojourner's site I went. And now I am uplifted and rejuvenated by their inspiring words and glad hearts. Bless them.